Thomas asks…

*Re-asked* Please I need help with a girl problem!?

Back in 7th grade, in math, I sat next to this kid Collin who later became my 2nd best friend, and this girl Emily. Later when I got home I found out that Emily texted my sister saying she sat next to me. Well my sister was her camp counselor but I didn’t go to camp because I am not a fan of camping back then. Well later on in the 1st quarter I fell in love with Emily. In 8th grade I asked her to the 8th Grade Fairwell dance. She said that she would only go as friends. We danced but when it was slow dancing we just went to the back and just ate. We remained best friends to like 10th grade. In 12th grade we went out. Well I played basketball at my community college and was the best so I got a full scholarship to a University. Me and her had a huge fight because I promised her that if I ever get a scholarship to play at an University that I would pick the one closer to her but I picked one way farther. We ended up breaking up but then a few days later we made up but we aren’t dating. I made a promise to stay single till I come back and I will remain a virgin. Now I am in my 2nd year of college and I had my first basketball game. A girl in the stands was only watching me. After my team won, she said “Hey nice game!!!” and I said “Thanks……” and I wanted to talk more but my roommate Andre pulled me and said COME ON WE GOTTA CELEBRATE!!!!!!!!!! but that girl was just glaring at me. Before I went to bed I asked Andre about that girl I was talking to since he was here for the 1st year with her. He said her name is Angel but she doesn’t date because she thinks college guys want one thing… her double Ds! Well I didn’t feel like I had looked at her boobs and was turned on I was turned on by her talking to me. In class my teacher told us to partner up and get to know the person for 10 minutes because week have a week assignment to do with them. I was going to pick Andre but he said “Dude go partner with Angel, this is your chance to see if she likes you!!!” I sat down and said “Hey I didn’t get a chance to talk to you yesterday!” she said “Yeah, but you were awesome in that game Rob!” I thanked her and then we just stared at eachother and she said how much she hates frat parties because all they do is public sex and junk. I asked her to a party with me and Andre and his girlfriend at our dorm. I said she had to bring a date but she said she isnt dating but I said that she can come in free my treat. We have 1 couch that can fit 2 people and 1 recliner that can fit 1 person with 1 sitting on top. Ofcourse I get the recliner but Angel said that she would sit on the arm rest of the recliner. Well we watched some World War movie and one part scared the crap outta us and she fell on me we stared again and I said “Are you comfortable?” and she said “Now I am!” and she wrapped her arms around my neck and she stared into my eyes and we made out for the rest of the 1 hour left of the movie. I said afterwards when Andre walked his girlfriend back “Did you like the movie?” and she said “which part? The scary part or the romantic part?” I said “The part where the superstar makesout with a superhotty!” and we just talked and laughed on the way back to her place. The next day we decided to go out. I had the life… until I annouced everyone I am happy for after I won my 2nd game in a row… Emily called me and said ANGEL???? And I went back to my hometown with Angel to meet the parents. Her dad scared me but her mom was nice. We had in common that we are both 50% italian and 50% polish. When we went back to my dorm a day after, Andre said that he isn’t gonna be back later till Friday (It is Winterbreak by the way) Well Angel came in my dorm at like 1:00 AM crying because her roommate brought some boy and they are being rude if you know what I mean. She brought ALL of her stuff! She wants to stay in my room, well she slept on Andres bed… Well she had to take a shower and she thought I was asleep but I was just closing my eyes. She drops down her towel and is kneeling in her suitcase to find some clothes, well stupid her she forgot them in her dorm. I am watching her the whole time so I get up but she is acting suprise. I gave her my clothes in my dresser. She wore boxers and A tightish shirt. Man was I turned on. But before I gave her the clothes we made out on the floor She was on top of me! She kissed me and got up. I saw her full hot body. We couldn’t sleep so we pushed the beds together and just talked. I sleep shirtless so she said, “OH nice abs!” And I said “OH nice breasts” We both laughed and made out. She said my shirt was too tight and if I mind if she takes it off. Of course I say take it off. We got closer and I took off my boxers… It didn’t matter because my **** was poking out of it. I took them off and she took hers off and we totally got out of the covers and she got on all fours and… well we went back to my hometown and I saw Emily walking her dog in her tight bathing suit. I love both girls but please hel

Martin answers:

Angel is better

Sandra asks…

Who/what is Barack Obama?

Someone said he is a type of leather recliner.
Another said he is an army camp in Iraq.
Thanks, I never knew it was a toaster company. What kind of toasters do they have? Are they good quality?

Martin answers:

The future white american hating terrorist of america!

Lizzie asks…

Do you understand my boyfriend!?

OK! So I already asked this question but it seems like I left out a lot of important details! So here we go, last try!

My boyfriend and I live together…he took me and my 3 boys in and he is a really great guy. He works and has a good job and we live pretty decent. We don’t have any threat of the bills not getting paid and he owns where we live. He pays the bills in the house. I DO HAVE A JOB and I contribute to extra money we have.

The problem I am having is that he hardly ever wants to go anywhere with me that I want to go. I’ll give you an example….tonight I was seeing family at a local camping site and invited him to come see everybody when he got off work. He asked what we were going to do and I said sit and visit and roast marshmellows and he said that’s a waste of his time off of work.

He works 38 hours a week at a pawn shop where he cleans and repairs electronics, does customer service, answers the phone and a bunch of other stuff. He says its very mentally and emotionally exhausting…whatever that means!?

He’s very moody about time off of work. He mostly just wants to sit in his recliner and play or watch TV/Movies on his xbox. I enjoy xbox too and we play Rockband sometimes or Donkey Kong on the Wii or something like that…but I don’t want to spend the rest of my life on the couch!!!!

He does nice things for me though…he got me flowers and a diamond necklace and surprised me at work not too long ago and he’s not so bad about leaving clothes laying around anymore….he just won’t hardly do anything outside of the house.

He says if he didn’t work so much he’d feel more free to do things but lots of people work and they still do things….he doesn’t get mad at me if I go do stuff without him though and I guess I’m thankful for that….and anywhere I go I always invite him he just rarely ever goes.

He doesn’t verbally abuse me or physically abuse me or mistreat my kids or anything like that…he just wants to sit in his chair and he wants things to be peaceful.

I love this boy with all of my heart but I feel like I can’t get anywhere with him!!! I’m a southern gal and I like camping and demolition derby’s and mudding and stuff like that and he calls it “redneck crap” (he’s from California)

I just don’t know what to do with him! On occasion he will want to go see a movie in theaters or go out to eat somewhere but most of the time we stay home. We went to Holiday World and Nashville Shores waterparks this year and that was his idea…he won’t do anything outside unless it involves water!!!

HELP!!!

Martin answers:

Ask him what he likes and would like to do and compromise
like you said he likes water. Try boating or swimming…
If he continues to say no then there is a chance that the relationship has gotten stagnant and he ins only doing thing out of a routine habit. This includes giving jewelry and flowers

Mark asks…

Help me understand my boyfriend!?

My boyfriend and I live together and he’s a really great guy. He has a good job and he pays all the bills in the house and I work too and make money but he hardly ever wants to go anywhere with ME. I’m a southern gal and I like camping and demolition derby’s and he won’t go to things like that. He says that its a waste of what little time he has off of work.

He’s really moody about time off of work…he mostly just wants to sit in his recliner and watch tv on his xbox or play games or watch movies…most everything we do is on the xbox. On occasion he will want to go see a movie in theaters or go out to eat somewhere but most of the time we stay home.

He does nice things for me though…he got me flowers and a diamond necklace and surprised me at work not too long ago and he’s not so bad about leaving clothes laying around anymore….he just won’t hardly do anything outside of the house.

He says if he didn’t work so much he’d feel more free to do things but lots of people work and they still do things….he doesn’t get mad at me if I go do stuff without him though and I guess I’m thankful for that….and anywhere I go I always invite him he just rarely ever goes.

I don’t understand!!!!

Martin answers:

I do not know how old you and your boyfriend are, but he may just be a homebody, or if he is older then he could be suffering from low testosterone. You did not comment on your intimate life, so if that is lacking flair as well, then he could be experiencing hypogonadism (low testosterone). You will hear advertisements and see commercials about this condition everywhere, so one website that is suggested is: http://www.isitlowt.com/

It does not sound like anything is functionally wrong with your relationship, which is a good thing, but you should express how you feel to him. There are a lot more questions that I could ask you, but one suggestion would be to try making going out exciting for him. Make an activity that you want to do into some sort of game for him to increase the excitement in your relationship, all you have to be is creative.

If that does not work and talking about it goes nowhere, then you need to ask yourself if his behavior is enough to cause a wedge in your relationship and if this is future behavior that you can live with. Sometimes we personally need more from our significant others, and if these needs are not met with refusal, then that is a sign that it might be time to move on. Stay positive about it now, and see what you can do.

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